The Colour of Wedding Gowns...
by Kay Burton...
When recreating a wedding gown for use in a miniature dolls house, bridal shop or church scene, for example, it is worth bearing in mind the colour. Is it right for the era and theme you are trying to depict?
Married in green, ashamed to be seen
Married in grey, will go far away
Married in red, wish yourself dead
Married in blue, always be true
Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow
Married in black, wish yourself back
Married in pink, of you he’ll think
Married in white, sure to go right
Brides who wore blue believed their husbands would always be true to them, so even if their gown itself was not blue, they would be sure to wear something blue about their person. This is another tradition that has survived to this day.
Pink was another popular colour, considered most suitable for a May wedding. It was flattering to most complexions and associated with girlhood. The deeper shade of red was definitely taboo by Victorian times, with its reference to scarlet women and hussies.
The bright shade of yellow has had varied popularity. In the eighteenth century it was “the” fashionable colour for a while, and many girls chose it, but before that time it had been associated with heathens and non Christians and was considered an unholy shade to wear in church!
Above left: Pre Raphaelite Bride
Above right: Country Bride
For brides of the lower classes, an extremely common shade of wedding gown was grey, because it was such a useful colour to re-use as Sunday best, being considered highly respectable. By Victorian times it became associated with girls in domestic service, as they would often be provided with a new grey dress each year by their employer. Its deeper shade of black was of course banned, with its permanent association with death and mourning. In fact it was considered such a bad omen that in some places even the guests were not allowed to wear it and a recent widow would change her mourning for a red gown for the day, in polite respect to the bride.
We have now reached a new century, and no doubt the wedding gown will carry on changing in fabric type and altering in form; colour is again being used much more. There is equally no doubt that the wedding gown will remain with us. Since the civil wedding laws were relaxed in the 1990s, allowing marriages to be conducted almost anywhere, wedding fashion continues to evolve separately from the general vogue. People have felt freer to allow full rein for their imaginations, and some wedding parties are not so much in "best" dress as fancy dress, as themed and fantasy costumes are the order of the day. Some weddings are indeed becoming much more colourful again as in days gone by.
Below Left: Queen Victoria
Below Right: Regency Wedding